This just all seems so wrong. Lil' Man will be leaving our home in two weeks, without any other visits with the adoptive family. I have an overwhelming feeling that this is not going to work out.
I have voiced my concerns regarding the number of children in the house, the age of the children, and the lack of transitional visits.
I have contacted my agency to see if they can speak with the worker. There needs to be transitional visits for Lil' Mans sake.
Three children 14 months and under, and 4 yr old who is more like a 2 yr old, with severe behavioral problems is a case for disaster.
I wanted him to be adopted, he deserves a forever family. But I want to make sure it is the right family.
It's out of my hands, there is nothing else I can do.
That is really too bad. I agree with you that it sounds like a recipe for failure. Sad...
ReplyDeleteI am all for arranging the visits..I arranged the one this passed Saturday, in our home. I think they will allow us to keep in touch. But I am not sure how much contact would be good for Lil' man at the begining. I asked the worker to call the family and see if they wnat to meet at the park one evening this week. I also told her to ask if they want to keep him over night this weekend.
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