Thursday, April 22, 2010

official word

We received official word from the adoptive parents worker, that they are indeed not adopting Lil' Man.  They stated that they seen some violent behaviors that concerned them.  The adoptive Mom was also sure that the FAS diagnosis was gonna stick (no shit)

Hello where you listening when I was talking to you? Did you read the reports? Did you think I was making the stuff up to make Lil' Man look bad? No I was being honest.  I wanted you to have all the information so that you could make an informed decision.

Thankfully I was told that their agency has put a hold on them receiving referrals because they where that set on adopting Lil' Man.  Them changing their mind came out of no where.

I am angry, and wish I could speak with the adoptive mom.

Lil' Man was not upset when we told him last night. I think he already knew, bc we have had acting out over the last few weeks.

He said thats okay because you and The hubby are my forever family. (heart breaking)

7 comments:

  1. I'm so sorry. And angry! But sorry. That sucks, but on the other hand I'm glad he didn't go to them and THEN have them realize that he does indeed have FAS. It's just so, so sad.

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  2. I hope their agency thinks long and hard before setting up another kid with them.

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  3. So sorry for you guys. Frustrating....

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  4. that bites, I hate it when crap like that happens. Perhaps they should of paid a little more attention before they said yes.

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  5. UUUUGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH... That's me SCREAMING. WTH did she think FAS was? The f'ing FLU? Ugh. I am so sorry for you but mostly for lil' man. BIG FAT (((SIGH))))

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  6. the things these kids say make you want to hug them and just CRY for them.

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  7. How sad for him. Glad the agency is holding referrals.

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