I spoke with Lil' Mans case worker about 4pm today. She told me that Lil' Man would be having another visit with the adoptive family this weekend. The adoptive family is going out of town over spring break, so placement has been set for April 10th.
Tonight Lil' Man wanted to call the adoptive family. Once he was done talking adoptive Mom, and I had a chat.
We went over what I had been told by my case worker. Adoptive Mom said she was unsure of the April 10th placement date.
I feel like I am living in a soap opera.
I just wanted to say WTF are you unsure of? Are you adopting him or not. Quit bullshitting and give me an answer. This is someone's life you are messing with. But I will leave that up to the case worker.
Lil' Man has never been told of a placement date, I don't even think he understands the whole "forever" thing.
She ended the conversation by saying we will see how this weekend goes, and touch base afterwards.
Is there usually this much drama involved in a child getting adopted? To me it seems black and white. Its either a yes we want to adopt, or no. What is there to think about after all of this time?