Lil' Man started his new daycare today. I took him there eight times before today, to get him used to the place. But it didnt help one bit. He ran away, screamed, hit kicked, bite, picked, peed himself, pooped himself, etc. He was screaming so loud I could hear him before I entered the building.
They are not able to offer the one on one support that he desperately needs.
They have given him until Friday to adjust or he cant come back. I totally understand, i don't fault the daycare at all. They have 50 other kids they need to worry about. But why are there no alternatives. Why am I now faced with giving him back?
Why is there no reliable child care for special needs children?
I spent the entire evening in my room bawling my eyes out. I am beyond stressed.
If things do not work out what am I supposed to do? I am left with no other choice than to tell his case worker that she needs to find another home for him to live in. A home where one parent stays home.
I dont want to do that, I want to keep him until he gets adopted. But at what cost?